Premature ejaculation- Myth and reality
Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction in men, and plays spoil sport in the love life of many people. The root cause usually is faster than normal neurological response in the pelvic muscles It can also be caused by depression, stress and anxiety,. Several myths surround this subject. It pays to analyse the myths and come to terms with realities. This analysis will definitely contribute to better love life.
Let us have a look at the usual myths and realities surrounding premature ejaculation.
Myth: Alcohol, cocaine, marijuana and antidepressants helps to control premature ejaculation.
Fact : These drugs may help to bring down your inhibitions and give a sense of well being. But they are depressants and in the long run they will definitely harm you.
Myth: Anesthetic sprays and creams are good ways to control premature ejaculation
Fact: What they actually do is numb the feeling in the sexual organs. You may be able to prolong the ejaculation but at the cost of experiencing real feeling. You are closing the door to the wonderful feeling that comes out of joyful sex. To compound the problem premature ejaculation recurs the minute you stop using the products.
Myths: It is all in the head or it could a problem arising out of lack of experience.
Fact :Apart from physical problems there are many psychological reasons that can lead to premature ejaculation. Inexperience could be a cause in the early years but it will disappear as you gain experience.
Myth Diverting attention elsewhere is a good way to control premature ejaculation
Fact The question is what are you trying to prove?. Your sex life is one of the most powerful and pleasurable experiences in your life. What genuine pleasure do you get, thinking of something else at the time of coitus?. It is a fallacy.
Myth Ejaculation is not something that you can control.
Fact If the problem stems from a weak PC muscle (pubococcygeus muscle), ejaculation can be controlled by properly exercising pelvic muscles. This will help to delay ejaculatory response.
Proper treatment by a specialist will help you to overcome Premature ejaculation. If you ignore this irritant it can lead to frustration for both partners seriously affecting family life and your self esteem. Implications would be multifarious. Face the problem head on with help from a specialist and lead a happy contented sex life.